So how does this translate into real life? Women spend a lot of time and energy trying to please men. We learn early on that we are being looked at – that we are to be looked at. That we are performers. It took years before I actually started enjoying sex. YEARS. I think what I enjoyed most about sex, when I was younger, was the feeling of being desired. The actual sex part was super boring for the first while.We learn, as girls and women, that the performance is more important than the actual feeling.
|—||Neil Gaiman, The Sandman (via lightandbones)|
|—||F. Scott Fitzgerald (via chanelwbu)|
Maison Martin Margiela Artisanal F/W 2013 backstage